While male masturbation has long been associated with a perverted subculture, sex educators and smart companies have been working to buck the stigma and make masturbation less taboo. From strokers and cock rings that take the work out of the jerk to prostate massagers that deliver orgasms like never before, there’s a men’s toy renaissance happening right now. Quality toys can be used alone for pleasure and relaxation or they can be incorporated into intimate sex with a partner to elevate heterosexual intimacy.
The best sex toys for men are made with a variety of materials to provide a range of sensations. Body safe silicone is the most common, but some models are crafted from leather, wood with medical grade finish, polished stone/crystal and even glazed or kiln-fired ceramic. For men with sensitive or delicate sex organs, there are also options that include glans rings and designs that encircle both testicles.
Most male sex toys have their own cleaning instructions, but Cam recommends using mild soap or sex toy cleaner and warm water to keep your new toy clean and ready for play. He also notes that storing your toy in a dry, cool place is always a good idea, as direct sunlight can cause damage.
There are a ton of different men’s masturbation tools on the market, so choosing which ones to add to your collection is all about knowing what each one can do for you. Strokers are tunnel-shaped, skin-textured toys that slide over your erection to simulate the sensations of sex, while a C-ring is a stretchy band that fits around the base of the penis, constricting blood flow for a hard, more consistent erection and heightened sensitivity.
For more targeted orgasms, the Satisfyer, a vibrating stroker made from Cyberskin—a super soft material that’s easy to clean—has 10 different pleasure settings for up and down stimulation on your penis. And for those who love the intense pressure and sensation of cock play, the Exo sleeve has a tight ribbed design that fits snugly on your testicles.
And it’s not all about the penis – there are a variety of sex toys that can stimulate the other orgasmic areas of the body, too. For example, a prostate massager is a great way to de-stress and relax (not to mention release that immuno-boosting oxytocin) or to increase intimacy with your partner. Many brands offer prostate massagers that can also be used on your dick or breasts, so you’ll be covered no matter which way the wind blows. Of course, it’s always a good idea to wear a condom when interacting with any sex toy. And don’t forget to practice good oral hygiene when sharing sex toys with your partners. Good oral hygiene is key to preventing STIs and HIV.