Despite a long-held stigma that sex toys are for women, masturbation tools and strokers for men are booming in popularity. The market now includes a variety of male masturbating toys for dudes to use solo or with partners, including vibrating sleeves and strokers that can be used as automatic or manual toys. With more options than ever, it’s important to choose the right masturbation tool for you and your partner.

Here are a few things to keep in mind when shopping for the perfect man masturbator.

Most masturbators and strokers are made from medical-grade silicone, which means they’re easy to clean and sanitize. Always start with a good lubricant, and don’t forget to wash your tool once you’re finished using it. Whether you’re using a sleeve, stroker or pocket pussy, make sure to thoroughly wash the toy and all external parts under running water. This will help to ensure that the toy is free of bacteria and other contaminants that can cause discomfort or irritation for you.

Sleeves are great for beginners, with their simple, discreet design and easy-to-use grips. They also tend to be pocket-friendly and can be stored in a purse or wallet so that they can be used on the go. Many sleeves feature a closed end, but some open-ended models are available for a more immersive experience. Some even offer a climax point that can enhance the orgasm and give you a sensation unlike any other.

Some sex toys for men are designed to mimic the look of real anal tissue, and this is especially true of strokers like the Colt Double Down. With a tight anal hole and intensely textured roller ball studs on both the inside and outside, this stroker has all the makings of a great masturbator. The Mocha Strokahhh, meanwhile, features a lovely brown texture that is as smooth and creamy as the coffee drink it pays tribute to.

For a stroker with a little more oomph, check out the Lovense Max 2. It’s a masturbation tool for men that features multiple factory settings and can be controlled from a phone app that lets you customize or download dick-sucking experiences. The toy is also rechargeable, so you can take it on a trip or just store it in your bedroom and enjoy its gentle vibrations whenever the mood strikes.

Strokers are similar to sleeves, but with longer shafts that can envelop more of the penis at once. Some are automatic, so they can be used with a dilator and turned on or off as desired. Others, such as the Fleshlight Launch, can be attached to a sleeve holder and used to envelop the entire penis for an automated orgasm.

These tools are a great way to get your body into the masturbation game, and they’re ideal for single or partnered use. However, it’s worth mentioning that if you’re going to be buying a sleeve or stroker that can be used by yourself, make sure you’re comfortable with the idea of not having a sexy object at your disposal for your masturbation sessions.