If your partner or you aren’t into blowjobs and handjobs, a male stroker can offer a satisfying way to experience the pleasure of anal penetration. These toys typically feature a flexible silicone casing with a ribbed interior and can be used for either solo or partnered masturbation. Unlike some other sex toys, which require a lot of lube and often feel stiff and hard, male strokers are soft and jelly-like with a skin-like texture that feels great. Most strokers have a variety of pleasure settings and are easy to clean for long-term use.

Most of the male strokers in this article are made from medical-grade, body-safe silicone that’s smooth and stretchy with just a hint of firmness. Some are designed to be heated, which can add an extra dimension of texture and sensation. Many are rechargeable for on-demand sex that doesn’t have to end when you run out of power. Some come with a travel lock and whisper-quiet motors.

There are a wide variety of male strokers on the market, from simple, disposable egg-shaped ones to high-tech blow job machines. The most advanced toys, such as the Handy by Sweet Tech, have a textured exterior and operate independently once you add lube. This device combines a penis stroker with an oral sex toy, offering a whole new level of orgasm that’s “basically the closest thing I’ve ever gotten to the feeling of a real hand-job or blowjob,” says our expert reviewer, Procida.

The more basic male strokers, like the Voy from Arcwave, are also easy to clean and provide plenty of pleasure for both partners or solo sessions. With caps on both ends, a partner can give oral sex while the stroker penetrates the shaft of the penis and stimulates the frenulum (the extra-sensitive area just below the head). A range of intensity modes and pleasure patterns are available to customize your experience.

If you’re looking for a male stroker that offers the most realistic feel of the real thing, go for one made of a softer, more jelly-like material with a ribbed interior. Many male strokers from well-known brands have this formula, which creates a very realistic feeling and, combined with a good lubricant, is close to the sensation of a vagina, anus or throat.

For the most convenient and discreet experience, choose a male stroker that’s waterproof or at least IPX7 rated. This means that it can be used in the shower, and most come with a small pouch or case for safe storage. It’s important to keep sex toys away from other dirty playthings, as they can pick up bacteria from your hands and mouth. Store them in their original packaging or with a clean toy pouch for safe, hygienic storage.