Whether you’re single, looking to spice up your relationship or want to give your masturbation game an upgrade, it’s time to explore men’s sex toys. Once thought to be reserved for perverted sub-cultures, sex toys are now widely available and incredibly versatile — from simple strokers to high-tech masturbation sleeves and even toys that elevate couples’ play to a whole new level. But which ones are the best? Read on to discover 2023’s top male sex toys.

While there are plenty of male vibrators out there to choose from, you have to be careful about what kind of texture you prefer and what type of pleasure you’re going for. Some male masturbators have textured bumps, nodules and ridges that can be very intense. Others have a smooth surface that’s great for beginners. Still others are open and can be used by people with or without an erection, making them suitable for masturbators with erectile issues.

For a toy that’s easy on the ego and even easier on your shaft, check out the Flip Hole from Lovehoney. This masturbator sleeve has multiple asymmetrical textures and buttons that let you customize pressure for every inch of your shaft. It’s also open on one side, allowing you to apply just the right amount of lube and distribute it evenly to avoid a messy spill. It’s a hands-free masturbator and can be used in conjunction with your partner or solo.

Another great masturbator to try is the Cobra Libre II from Fun Factory. This guy’s toy is open on one side and has a 3.5-inch insertable sleeve that looks like a snug cup. It’s designed to stimulate the penile glans and frenulum for a hand-free session that’s perfect for stamina training and just plain masturbating.

Unlike most male masturbators, which require an erection to work, the PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL and PULSE SOLO DUO are both compatible with flaccidity. They’re made from soft matt silicone and can be used with water-based lubes that won’t degrade the toy. They’re also water resistant, letting you enjoy masturbation for hours on end.

Straight dudes are finally coming around to butt play, and it’s a great way to get orgasms on your own — or with a partner. One of the best butt toys for men is the NJOY X-Long wand, which has a sleek curve that hits your male g-spot with blissful massage rhythms. This is an ideal toy for partnered play, but it’s just as good for masturbating on your own or with a friend. Just make sure you use a lube that’s compatible with the toy and the sensitivity of your cock. It’s also recommended to wipe down the toy after every use for hygienic reasons. You’ll also find that some male masturbators come with a sleeve for easy cleaning.