Kenneth Play, sex educator and co-founder of the sex-positive intentional community Hacienda, says that while the nJoy Pure Wand is mostly known as a G-spot stimulator for women, “it’s also the ultimate prostate toy.” He likes its long, curved shape, which “makes it ideal for self-pleasure without arm strain.” Lisa Finn at Babeland is another fan: “Pure magic when it comes to prostate play!” The balls at either end “provide a firm, targeted pressure that’s unlike any other toy on the market.” She especially loves how the medical-grade stainless steel “warms quickly with body heat,” and suggests running it under warm or cool water for some “temperature play.”
Don’t be the dumbass who buys a blowjob machine just because it looks good or is advertised by a well-known brand. That canal texture is going to be what makes or breaks the toy, so concentrate on that if you know what’s good for you. Search for things like removeable sleeves, interchangeable canals, and extreme oral-simulation textures instead. Get a good idea as to the quality of the texture by skimming over a couple customer reviews.
4. Fleshlight Launch – The Fleshlight Launch is a scientifically advanced device that pairs up with your favorite Fleshlight and select porn. You pair it with your computer or VR goggles and it syncs up with the porn of your choice, moving the Fleshlight in tandem with the motions on screen! All you need to do is put your favorite Fleshlight into the device, lube up with your favorite waterbased lubricant, and sit back and enjoy!
“I think men are becoming much more open to exploring that part of their bodies,” says Samantha Bard, co-owner of the Williamsburg sex shop and event space, Shag. “When we talk about prostate play here, we call it the ‘P-spot.’ The P-spot can give you a different kind of orgasm than regular ejaculation. It’s a deeper, more filling orgasm, and if you can train your body to have a prostate orgasm as well as a regular orgasm, it could be a blended orgasm that’s really kind of out of this world.” Bard’s favorite prostate toy for beginners is the Blush Performance Plus, which has the high-grade silicone and rechargeable battery found in more advanced options, but is still simple and easily maneuverable for someone just starting out. “It’s smaller, so it’s not too intimidating.”
This stroker may look strange to the naked eye but that just makes it even better in my books, it’s discreet to look at but discretion is not the word when it comes to the intense orgasms it can deliver. Make sure to always apply lube with this toy and once you have done that slip your manhood inside and submerge yourself into a world of thrilling lifelike ridges, bumps and tight pleasurable sensations.
When first seeing the LaunchPad, you get one of those “oh, obviously” feelings that makes you wonder how this took so long to be invented. This dual fleshlight/iPad holder allows you to secure your porn and your sex toy in one place for a VR experience that’s delivered to you. We recommend their patented porn series or a VR cam site like AliceX for a dose of real-life action.
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This was the "What was I thinking" purchase of the year for me. It's not all that pleasant to use and good luck trying to clean the sleeve. once you get it out/. It is a like an act of Congress to get back in. I called to return it. they gave me my money back and told me to keep it..lol.. that was almost 2 months ago. I haven't picked it up since. WHAT WAS I THINKING?!?!?! lol
A higher-tech option from b-Vibe that a bunch of the experts were particularly excited about. “So many nerves are concentrated at the anal opening, it’s an exquisitely sensitive spot, which is why rimming feels so good,” says Finn. According to Richardson at the Museum of Sex Shop, this toy is “unique to the anal-play market.” It “simulate[s] the sensation of rimming” with its “vibrating head and rotating beads in the neck and base.” Another great feature is the remote control, which Duran really appreciates: “No one wants to reach all the way back and change the speed, so having a remote handy is great.” This one works equally well solo or with a partner. (This is the “petite” version, but it’s also available in the original standard size).
I came, by the way, because the extraordinary stimulation that the Fleshlight offers, coupled with the Launch's intensity, really does work. For that reason alone, it's a winner in my book, since it's rare that a sex toy can bring me off without additional help. It's one of the reasons I've always had a soft spot for Tenga's Egg, which enhances the natural experience without mechanizing it completely. It's also comforting to know that there is a digital toy out there that can make me come, because I was worried it would never happen.